On opening up...

Keeping things inside does not make us any better. In fact, holding on to secret fears and secret feelings makes us seem a lot worse than we probably are. When you keep things on the inside , the weight of it all can tear you up, hold you down, push you into situations that do not serve your best interests. Holding on to things can cause all sorts emotional imbalance, complete confusion and old despair.

When you have a lot going on inside, you must find some way to let it out. You might cry about it. When you're alone you can shout about it. You can talk about it. You can run it out, walk uit off or go to the gym and work it out. You must let someone know what is going on inside you. It is tempting to eat about it, drink about it or blow it out in smoke. A better strategy is to write about it.

Each of us comes to taht point when we must trust someone enough to open ourselves up for review. It's not always easy!!! We cannot hide what we feel forever.

Too much working is fun sometimes!

I feel that sometimes it's better for you to work loooong hours in the office because while working you tend to forget about your personal problems. You focus on what you're doing and in a way it's like an escape goat from reality... the world outside office.

I'm not saying it happens a lot but really, working hard is a good way of overcoming obstacles sometimes. It's like your "vacation"...

Just a thought.